DOs and DON'Ts: When meeting your Boyfriend's mum

If your boyfriend invites you to meet his mum, he's taking the relationship to the next level. But are you ready to meet the future in-law?

Here's a list of "DOs and DON'Ts" that may just help you make that first impression.

In a nutshell, meeting your boyfriend's mum is like preparing for a job interview.

DOs:

1. Get a gift. As women, we know we love gifts. So, get your future "mother-in-law" a simple one for the gesture. But remember don't get one that will blow a hole in your pocket, just a small token will do. Expensive gift might give her the wrong impression that you are a lavish person.

2. Be polite. And of course, bring along your smile together with your manners too. If you're seated, stand up to greet her and sit after her. Say "thank you" whenever she offers you something. But remember, don't overdo it. It may appear as though you're faking it.

3. Don't be a kid. Project a mature image so that she'll take your relationship with her son seriously. But try not to be too serious until you appear stiff. Some humour is good for breaking the ice and build rapport.

4. Say "thank you". Accept and thank her when she offers you something to eat. Don't be picky, not openly at least - especially when she's the one cooking the meal. Even if you don't like the food, taking small bits will make her feel appreciated.

5. Be humble. Regardless what she ask, let her finish her sentence. Even if you know, don't say "I know..." In the eyes of our elders, you can be perceived as trying to act smart.

6. Ask about herself. People usually like to talk about themselves. By doing so, you show that you are interested in her as a person and not just as your boyfriend's mother. However, be careful not to overdo it and appear insincere.

DON'Ts:

1. No piercings. Piercings on your nose and lip should be removed. Keep to a maximum of one pair of earrings.

2. No tattoos. This is not the time to show off your body artwork. Best not to have any tattoos to begin with and you won't have this problem.

3. Simple make-up. Creative make-up would probably shock her. Minimal make-up is best for a fresh look. If you have problematic skin, don't cover up with heavy make-up until you look like a geisha. She'll understand that beauty is beyond skin deep.

4. Dress pleasant. Low cut and mid-riff baring shirts are out; so are mini-skirts. If she is conservative, you may want to consider short-sleeve instead of sleeveless. The basic rule is to dress youthful, fashionable and look demure.

5. Don't complain. Complaining may give her the impression that you are a complain queen - difficult to please.

6. Don't talk too much. Talking too much may also give a bad impression. This is not to say you are to keep as quiet as a mouse. Just be sure not to ramble on too long on topics that auntie looks bored by.