Thor

23 May 11 by MsJaslyn88

Have you guys watch Thor yet?

No? What are you still waiting for?

I bet you have see the charming Chris Hemsworth in Star Trek before. Loved his acting? Wanna see more? Now you can! Hurry go catch Thor in cinemas now! In Thor, I’m sure you will have laughter, sadness, excitement, thrilling moments.

After a brief history of the Asgardians the story catches up to the present, when Thor is the heir-apparent to the throne of Asgard, but not everyone agrees that it is for the best. At the start of the film, Thor is good natured, but he is also arrogant and brash. He is a warrior first and foremost, and would lead the kingdom in the same manner. His father and king, Odin (Anthony Hopkins), has faith in his son, but he also carries grave reservations about his ability to rule. When the Frost Giants of Jotunheim, an ancient enemy long ago defeated by an army led by Odin, attack Asgard, Thor’s reaction is to immediately strike back. Odin wisely overrules him to prevent a war, but Thor is unhappy and want to get justice back.

To make things worse, his brother Loki (Tom Hiddleston) try to instigate Thor to ignore his dad and heads to Jotunheim with his friends Sif (Jaimie Alexander), Loki, and the Warriors Three: Volstagg (Ray Stevenson), Fandral (Joshua Dallas) and Hogun (Tobanobu Asano). There they start a fight with the Frost Giants that quickly escalates and boils out of control. Odin intervenes, but it is too late, and the two worlds are on the brink of war.

As punishment, Odin strips Thor of his power and banishes him to Earth, which turns out to be not so bad a deal because he is found by the astrophysicist Jane Foster (Natalie Portman) who was tracking the bridge between worlds that sent Thor to Earth. After Thor appears, a second bridge sends his hammer, Mjolnir, to Earth with Odin’s command that only those worthy be able to wield it. S.H.I.E.L.D. soon arrives, and while they aren’t clear on what Mjolnir truly is, they understand that it is a powerful object that deserves scrutiny.

Meanwhile, back in Asgard, Loki becomes heir apparent. But when a secret from his past is revealed, he confronts Odin and things go badly. Soon Loki ascends to the throne while Odin is ill, and his true colors begin to show. On Earth, Thor is soon forced to admit that he cannot return home and he is not worthy of the power. He and Jane grow closer together, but Loki refuses to leave his brother be, and Earth is soon drawn in to the growing conflict.

Overall, I will recommend all of you to go catch this movie. If you miss the chance, fret not! Wait for the DVD to be out or watch it online!

Top 5 Gadgets 2011

16 May 11 by MsJaslyn88

Hot, new, cool, high tech and best electronic gadgets are what we want not only for experiencing it and perhaps show it off to our friends, family. Following the release of iPad 2, there’s rumors about iPhone 5 releasing soon too. With so many gadgets coming out, how would you define your top 5 gadgets for 2011?

For myself, I would choose the following 5 as my most wanted gadgets in 2011..

1. iPad 2

Of course, this is a must have for me. Now that the price is more affordable and the overall weight is lighter, I want it. On the iPad 2, there’s two cameras front and back. They may be tiny, but they’re a big deal. Not only you can video call with your friends, you can also let the back camera roll when you see something video-worthy. If you love effects, you will love photo booth. From funny to artsy to really bizarre. Make a few faces, snap a few snaps and see your wacky side. Definitely a must-have for girls who love to self-take or share enjoyable time with friends. And if you love games, you will love iPad 2 even more. With the built-in accelerometer, you can rotate iPad to portrait or landscape, or even upside down, and whatever you’re watching, reading, or seeing adjusts to fit the display. And now the accelerometer, three-axis gyroscope, and compass all work together. They sense which direction iPad is heading and how it’s moving. So games, maps and other apps know your every twist, turn, tilt, and 360. It’s an epic win for gaming. And it’s just the beginning of better-than-ever iPad apps. Even with the new thinner and lighter design, iPad has the same amazing 10-hour battery life.That’s enough time for one flight across the ocean.

2. Nikon DSLR – D90

If you are into photo taking, you will love this. With its 12.3-megapixel DX-format CMOS imaging sensor, breathtaking image fidelity is assured. There’s also built in image sensor cleaning, meaning it has effective 4-frequency, ultrasonic sensor cleaning frees image degrading dust particles from the sensor’s optical low pass filter. Also, if you love sharing with your friends where you are, Nikon D90 has GPS geo-tagging too. For me personally, I love this feature. It’s awesome when you are not contactable, your friends will know where to find you. Isn’t it nice?

3. Samsung Smart TV

This is quite a high end product. This cost nearly $7k. Expensive but you have the money, I will persuade you to buy this. With this Smart TV, you can connect wireless all your compatible digital devices, unlocking the music, movies and photos stored in a software named AllShare. Not only you can search your media stuff inside, you can also download them too. One more plus point for this TV, you can surf the net with the built in browser. For the bloggers out there, you can blog with this TV too. Personally, I think this is so cool. For the first time, we can use a TV to blog, tweet, surf facebook. What a fascinating experience. This feature totally sweep me off my feet. There are too many features to name.

4. Wii

If you love gaming and you have no time to exercise, this is for you. With this gadget, you can not only exercise and have fun playing the games. Tennis, bowling, cycling. You name it, they have it. Recently, they release Netflix. With Netflix, you can watch TV episodes and movies streamed from Netflix on your Wii console! Love the drama or movies? Watch as often as you want when you have a membership with Netflix, your Netflix Instant Streaming Disc for Wii, and a broadband Internet connection. Get the whole family together for a game & movie night! Best time to interact with your family!

5. MacBook Pro

This is nothing new. But for me who is still using Windows, I would want to try out MacBook. Not only because of the design, but also the operating system in MacBook. The 13-inch MacBook Pro now features a 2.3GHz Intel Core i5 processor or the fastest dual-core processor available — the 2.7GHz Intel Core i7. With Turbo Boost speeds up to 3.4GHz, these processors allow the 13-inch MacBook Pro to perform up to twice as fast as the previous generation. Not only that, The new 15- and 17-inch models bring quad-core power to almost everything you do. The available 2.3GHz quad-core Intel Core i7 processor — with Turbo Boost speeds up to 3.4GHz and up to 8MB of shared L3 cache — enables these MacBook Pro models to run applications up to twice as fast as their top-of-the-line predecessors. Another feature of the MacBook is the Multi-Touch trackpad. Most natural way to interact with what’s on your screen and the smooth glass surface gives you plenty of room for gestures. You can pinch to zoom in and out, swipe to flip through photos, rotate to adjust an image and etc. The button-less design lets you click anywhere. And if you are used to a right-click world, you can now right-click with two fingers or configure a right-click area on the trackpad. The more you use the Multi-Touch trackpad, the more you’ll wonder how you ever did without it.

Above are only some of the features I’m in love with. Hopefully, one day I will gain possession of them. For now, they are my top 5 gadgets. What’s yours?

Am I in a healthy relationship?

7 May 11 by MsJaslyn88

When it come to relationships, we all want to feel loved, protected and being supported which all can be fulfilled by having a healthy relationship. Apart from wanting security that comes with a healthy relationship, we want our friends/family members/outsiders to agree with us that my relationship is a healthy one.

At times, it’s funny how we might try to display a image of perfection to the people around us with roses, rainbows and smiles.

But in reality, to a certain extent, no matter how perfect we image ourselves to be, we still have flaws and are trying how to be a better person.

I think part of the reality of being human is that we make mistakes, we lose our patience, and that we aren’t perfect. This is the basis for all relationships— healthy or otherwise.

What defines a healthy relationship?

I believe to obtain a healthy relationship, there must be some criteria/steps taken. Trusting, supporting and mutual respect is what a relationship should never lack. Of course, there are many other conditions. Here are a few of it.

Being trusting also means giving the other party freedom to hang out with their own friends and not checking his/her hand phone be it secretly or openly. Trusting means even if he/she mix around with the opposite gender, you will not be over-jealous. Believing he can bring you happiness is also one condition that a healthy relationship will have. Trusting in this sense means valuing each other and would not try to challenge the other party’s boundaries.

In my opinion, I think being supportive is very important because at certain times when other people do not understand why you make a certain decision and might just misunderstood you. If at that point of time, there’s someone there just to listen to you and not question you, don’t you just feel like it’s such a happy and awesome feeling? At least someone understands you or is willing to spend time listening to you or at least you don’t feel alone. And I think this is very important to a certain extent.

Respect. A big word but it can be very simple as well. Basically, respect in this sense means respecting the other party by being proud of them, respecting their views and opinions. You are happy for them when they are successful in life/school. And it also means listening to him/her, understanding that every one is different and is willing to accept who they are. On the other hand, if there are some faults/characters you are not happy with him/her, you can discuss it openly and talk things out and resolve the problem existing. And in a healthy relationship, respecting also means each partner has the right to have her/his own feelings, friends, activities, and opinions. It is unrealistic to expect or demand that that he or she have the same priorities, goals, and interests as you. Because everyone is born different.

After achieving the above listed points, you will have to spend more maintaining the relationship. Giving small gifts and planning small getaways might be important, but sometimes burning a big hole in your pockets might not have the effect that you wish/desire for. Why not plan small non-material things that partners routinely do for each other that will further keep the relationship satisfying?

Lastly, here are some of the quotes I found it meaningful and relevant to this topic.

“Love has a better chance of lasting when both people in the relationship have trust in each other and are honest enough to communicate all along their journey together.” – Psychic TeriLynn ext. 9625

“At the beginning of your relationship you courted, were on your best behavior, made plans for the future … to make love last, don’t let that change!” – Psychic Lourdes ext. 9390

Let’s work hard together to achieve a healthy relationship today!

If I can…

23 April 11 by MsJaslyn88

I want to ask you:

Why did you agree straight away to meeting your friends when you are actually hanging out with me? Don’t you have to ask me first before you agree? Hello? I’m your girlfriend. Am I transparent to you? How can you treat me like a spare tyre? I really don’t understand. Or is it because we are together long enough, so you don’t have to consider my feelings anymore? I really hate how you kick me aside EVERY TIME your friends ask you out. Don’t you know how to say “No”? Why you can go out with your friends but not with me? WHY??!!!! We can just go out walk around doing nothing. But no, you are not even willing to do that with me.

Why are you always sleeping when you are with me? Am I really that boring to you? Why you can spend the whole day sleeping? And when you are awake you will go out of your room watch TV or anything? Why can’t we just we like go out hang around doing nothing? I really don’t understand.

Why can’t we be like other couples who will chat on phone every night? I know why. BECAUSE YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO TALK TO ME AT ALL. This is so depressing. Even if we can’t chat on phone, why can’t we sms either? Just because you are in camp? We can’t even meet up everyday. Only the weekends. I don’t understand why. Other couples can meet almost everyday. Don’t say you are busy or have no time. Time is self-manageable. Don’t you understand?

For some reasons…

17 April 11 by MsJaslyn88

I wasn’t too happy today. When I went out with my friends just now to eat Soup Spoon, I told my friend about some things that I never cannot tell anyone else. Don’t ask me why. It’s just secrets. After telling her, she said when I came to love matters, I tend to become very weak/irrational. I agree with her totally. I tend to go all the way for the guy I like. I mean as in do ANYTHING. Let’s say if I’m at home now, and suddenly the boy call me out saying that he was out of love need someone to accompany or talk to, I will agree without hesitation if I’m free. Even if it’s late night. I really hate the me like this. Cause it’s like the guy is making use of me just to get companionship. AND even though I know this, I’m still willing to give in everything I can just to make him happy. Even if there’s someone else beside him. Am I being very shameless behaving this way? And my friend told me that when a guy treat me nice, I will become very helpless and behave like how I wrote above. Why? To me, it’s like when a guy treat me nice, I will have the thoughts that he like me or is interested in me. In the past when a guy treat me this way, I will like also start to fall for him. And when I confess to him, then realized “eh… he’s NOT interested in me at all.. just treating me nice as how he would to others…” Thinking about this, I feel like I’m very shameless. Really. I know I shouldn’t behave this way. I mean which girl will. But you know, sometimes feelings are so damn HARD to control. And even though I was hurt umpteenth times, I’m still as silly. It’s like I never learn the lesson. Perhaps I just need that ONE look from him just to show he care. At least I won’t be so hurt. But you know, it’s like damn hard. I don’t know why. Perhaps he just treat me as someone who he turn to when he don’t have anyone. I’m sad. I wish in time to come, I will not be like this anymore. Perhaps aim not to be like this anymore at the age of 25? =D

Returning to lost love?

10 April 11 by MsJaslyn88

I believe all of us (okay, maybe some) have times when we broke up with someone but secretly in the heart hoping that someday somewhere we can go back to his arms once again.

Considering the status and the “cool-down” period, maybe at some times we can give him/her a second chance. Provided you trust him/her and still have feelings for him/her. Looking back at all the happy times sometimes might cause you to make haste decisions. Don’t. Rushing into the relationship once again might cause yourself more hurt later on. And it definitely won’t hurt to think more.

Think about why you separated, what are the problems between you, can it be solved, can you put in more effort this time. Talk things over thoroughly. Love is not a game. To make things work out, maybe you can sit down and write a list of the things that you promise that you will do for each other. This may sound childish, but I don’t see why you can’t do this.

For me, I once did thought of getting back to my ex. But unfortunately, it wasn’t a two way thing. I was indeed in love deeply with this one guy before. And although I’m attached now, you know, sometimes people just like to look back and regret doing some particular thing. So do I.

What I think is, there’s actually nothing wrong wanting to go back to your ex. It’s like you move on and you get together with another someone and realize the person is not what you are looking. So you turn back.

So you start to get back with your ex again, always remember that it’s not advisable to act someone you are not. This won’t work. This time you should be still the same yourself that he used to love but even better, nicer and more attractive. This will show that he has made a right choice instead of regretting it in the later part. Never lie. Always talk things out. Be truthful. Never lie to each other.

Lastly, I think getting back with someone you once get together with is not a bad thing as long as you know how to balance the relationship.

Sorry seems to be the hardest word…

1 April 11 by MsJaslyn88

Does this remind you of Blue’s song – Sorry seems to be the hardest word?

I believe most of us have the experience of having to apologize to our loved one after we did something wrong. But sometimes, the word “sorry” just refuse to leave our lips. However, would you rather to be separated from your loved one or put down your ego and apologize? The latter is definitely a better choice.

What are the effective ways of apologizing the right way?

1. Know the reason you are apologizing.

Identify the reason you are doing it. Think back. What you did wrong? Perhaps you misunderstand the other party. Or you gossip behind someone and end up the party found out. Since you know your mistake, admit it. Don’t try to deny or push the responsibility to others. Know the mistake made and amend it.

2. Do it face to face.

Never apologize over a phone or a text message. It’s rude. It shows how insincere you are. Doing it face to face not only let the other party know that you are really trying to mend the “broken” relationship, it also let him/her realize that you are sincere. It might seems hard when both of you are in a angry situation. But the one apologizing should just think of how important the person meant to you.

3. Listen.

Listen to what the other party said. At this point of time, it’s better not to provoke the other party anymore. Just listen. Be a listener at this time.

4. Never do it again.

If you apologize and say that you won’t make the same mistake again – then don’t. Cause the more sorry you said, the next time it will mean NOTHING.

WHY?

26 March 11 by MsJaslyn88

Why did you fake your love for me?
Why did you seems so real in all your words yet I’m feeling like you’re hurting me?
Why did you say you miss me when you don’t even talk/sms me?
Why did you keep leaving me alone in the cold wind?

I don’t know how to trust you anymore. Let’s just say, forget it. Leave me alone. Don’t try to start a conversation with me anymore. I hate you. I don’t know how to handle these. So please, just leave me alone. You convinced me that I’ll be better off without you. Please, just stay away from me. I don’t need you anymore. I hate you. I hate you for leading me on and pushing me away. I hate myself for letting myself fall into your trap. You are just like other guys. You make me believed that for once you were different. But now…

Never mind. It’s not important anymore. So just leave me alone. Let’s just remain like this. We should stop meeting up and stop faking your love for me. It’s enough already.

Being a vegetarian…

25 March 11 by MsJaslyn88

This is quite a emo post. So be warned.. =P

I have never wonder why I am a vegetarian and never thought that ME being a vegetarian will be a problem or trouble to anyone. BUT as I grow older, I began to think that it DID cause some problems. People or my friends have to start going to places where there’s something for me to eat or suitable for me to eat. But I’m quite a picky eater. FYI, I don’t eat onions, garlic, fish and other living animals but I’m able to eat egg and drink milk. Although I do not eat a lot of other things, I still think I gave in a lot already. In the past, I’ll never ever thought of going to Sakae Sushi/Pastamania/LJS to eat. But now, as times passes, I begin to compromise. I start going to those places to eat. And trying NOT to be choosy.

However, sometimes I still do try to convince myself that ME being a vegetarian is not a very big issue now because there are quite a lot of vegetarian stalls around Singapore. But most of them are in the east side. And sometimes when I can’t find any stalls and have nothing to eat.. I become depressed. If I’m alone, it’s still okay. But if I’m with a group of friends, they have to think where can we eat. I really feel bad at those times. And DOWN.

But seriously, I can’t stop being a vegetarian. It’s like a habit since I’m at the age of 3. I’m already been labeled VEGETARIAN FOR LIFE since I was in my mum’s womb. And after 3 years old. If now someone give me a piece of meat to eat, I will feel like puking even BEFORE putting it into my mouth. I know. Some of you might say it’s mentally problem. But for me, I don’t know. I don’t know what problems it might cause in future/after married.

For now, I will still stick to being a VEGETARIAN, no matter what.

Family Ties

23 March 11 by MsJaslyn88

What does “family ties” means to you? For me, I think family is very important because they are the one who will never ever do things to hurt you or betray you. Maybe not in those rich families. But for me, a small family like mine.. We stay close together. We might not talk to each other about the small small things happening in our life but I believe they are the one I can rely on when in need. One thing I love about my family is because whenever someone’s birthday is coming we will have a small celebration. But this only applies to my parents. Because me and my sister have boyfriend to celebrate for us. =D I think this is the only time we gather around and talk together and mix around. =)

Surely, there are times when we are not in a good mood and tend to more grumpy. We might lose our temper in front of my parents. But they will still just take it and do not ignore us or angry with us. But I do wonder IF they had a CHOICE, will they ignore us? Will they abandon us? Will they just don’t talk to us? Or even throw us out of the house? I wonder….

I love my family a lot. I appreciate what my parents do for me. For example, my mum knows that I’m bringing food to office. She will cooks more. And I told her that I will be in a rush to pack rice the next morning before I go to work. She will prepare the rice nicely and so that I can just take and go. I really love going out with them for breakfast. Seriously. I can’t just put the gratefulness I’m feeling into words.

Sometimes we might not know how to express our feelings to them. But at least, at least do something for them on father’s day or mother’s day. Let them feel special for once. Cause you will never know when you will lose them to forever. And when you realize that you’ve lose them, it’s too late for regrets. So why not cherish every moment with them while you can and they are around. =)